"Let's just be friends"

Ever heard this phrase? "Lets just be friends". I think its pretty common for people who are breaking up or being rejected when confessing. Well, the truth is, there is no such thing as "Lets just be friends" in a romantic relationship. This four words, once uttered, are relationship killers. There are cases where some ex lovers can still remain friends after a breakup though the chances of rekindling the romance are likely. And there are chances some people can still be friends with the person who once confessed that they like them.
But we can't deny the awkwardness that follows after the words "Lets just be friends" are spoken.

I'll take myself as an example, the guy i confessed (7 years ago) to told me "Can we just stay friends?" Although i say yes, its totally different after the incident. You cant look each other in the eye, talk, work together without feeling that awkward moment. So after a while, i took the step to stay away from that guy and he did the same. Ex-es too, you cant just treat them like friends after having such an intimate relationship in the past.

That's why its normal for two person to drift apart after telling either one "Let's just be friends". Human are egoistical creatures, we want to preserve our pride. I am no exception, i admit my pride is wounded. And seeing that guy just makes it worse. So why should i stick around and be reminded of the pain of being rejected. It is a form of rejection! 
So when someone says that, it automatically means you should stay away from them after that. Trust me, it'll save both of you much unwanted awkwardness and troubles. Everyone doesn't want to be in the friend zone with someone they like, i understand. So before you decide to confess to someone you like, make sure she or he is really interested. You might just save yourself the embarrassment and awkwardness.