Curse of Fame

So I've recently read about JYJ abusing fans thing. I mean of course if they're smart celebs they should know that their actions will be watched and scrutinized all around the world. But then think of the suffering they have to go through in the hands of crazy lunatic fans? Try living their life for just a day, NO, one hour, it's enough for you to understand the pain in many great ways. Of course when they first famous, they just love the attention but try living it for years, does sound even more than exhausting right? 
Sure getting famous is a great thing- admirers, money and lots and lots of it. Sounds too good? Of course not! It comes with a price that they should be willing to pay. If they're not famous, why would people give a damn? When you're famous, everyone wants to dish the dirt on you, they wanna find faults in you, especially the media. Take for example, the Grammy Curse. Whoever won the best actress award will end up divorce/broken marriage. Why? Suddenly you're the centre of the spotlight, everyone wants to know what you did to deserve that award. If they never receive the awards, no one would do a thorough back ground check and never would have known the things they did. Famous examples, Sandra Bullock and Kate Winslet all ended up divorced. Why do you think that is?
In JYJ case, it's the same. When they were famous as DBSK and now JYJ, everyone wants to know what they do. What they do to deserve to be so famous. I'm not a hypocrite when i say that I DON'T idolize any celebrity cuz i really don't. C'mon people, they're just any regular people, they drink, eat, sleep, shit. Breathe the same air with us. All they had extra was opportunity, talents and lots of money. What is there to idolize?
These crazy fans stalking them around even to the weird extend of (i really feel super disgusted by this) sending menstrual period blood in panty to them, break into house try to kiss them, stalk family members, call them, move in next to them. SHEESH!! Get a LIFE! life doesn't revolves around celebs. Think of the time you use to stalk them, you can actually study, get a real education, get good job, travel around the world, then you would see the world differently- What are they then? You'll see them as a bunch of circus monkeys. So grow up you idiotic lunatic fans and give them some space to breathe!