Somebody to love

I was just listening through my old songs and i just really listened to the lyrics from Somebody to love by Anne Hathaway from "Ella Enchanted". Ironically, it suits my situation really well right now. The part where she sang 

"Take a look in the mirror and cry, Lord, what ya doing to me. 
I've spent all my years believing in you, but I just can't get no relief. 
Lord, somebody, somebody, can anybody find me, somebody to love."

 It's so sad when i think about it. I'm turning the big 20 in a week and still I never found someone to love (as in romantically) Sure i have family, friends, pets and other objects to love but it's all in a different kind of love.   Being a hopeless romantic person in nature (actually from reading all the fairy tale love novels), I also wish to find someone to love someday. And I've been holding on to that belief for years, yearning for the day I can actually experience this "heavenly" feeling (as how my inconsiderate happily in love friends would put it).
It's unpleasant to be the odd one out during valentines =.=
See, it's also bad to be so critically studying the types of love in psychology. I learn to be not content with just the normal love for parents and friends. I want to experience all kind of love. So far I did experience all except romantic ones.
So i've been waiting for years and asking God the same question all the time "Why? What are you waiting for?". Can it be my fault? Or is my cupid lazing off somewhere? Anyway, i'm still waiting hoping that the someday will come soon.